My favourite Cat in the Hat book is ...because...

I remember this character but I don’t remember what the stories were about.. All I can remember, from my teen years.. are the SweetValley High books, Kathy and Mark as well as Benny & Betty, nope, not Dr Seuss…not in detail anyway.

You see, when I was a kid, the first book I read in school was the Kathy and Mark collection of books. I remember each and every one, from Socks the dog to ….well….mom. Anyway, it’s all a bit vivid now but I once lived in that fantasy. It has sort of formed the foundation of my literacy.

SweetValley High I loved. I’m sure iv read each and every novel, im sure every high school kid has. Who wouldn’t? They’re so addictive; you can’t help but want to read more. It could be due to the fact that we could all relate as the story involves High School teens and the adversities they face, achievements, relationships, etc. You’d practically see yourself in those stories and wish you were there. LOL. Good times, lovely memories, great childhood. Peace J

Why i have conversations

What a question! Well, I have conversations with various types of people from different backgrounds and walks of life. Each individual has a certain uniqueness about them, therefore a different story to tell and a different view point aswell.



I have conversations with people to add to the little knowledge that I have, to empower myself and more importantly to form new relationships with individuals that have the potential to add value to my life. Every being has something different to bring to my table, why not?


Conversations are very healthy, some build and some destroy you, which ones you entertain is ultimately up to you. Some of these convos serve as warnings as to the type of person you’re dealing with, and some you can learn from. Either way, 80% of your time is spent conversing, whether its with your spouse, colleagues, parents, kids or just friends, it’s a way of life. Peace J



KIDS R’ US

Life used to be so simple in Primary School, cant I go back? My mother prepared everything for me, from lunch, clothes, hair, school bag, the works. All I did was eat, sleep and play.

The same cannot be said for kids of today. Things have changed dramatically and it is not for the better. Play stations, video games, television shows, social networks have replaced childhood games like hopscotch, snakes and ladders, sports as well as educational activities such as boy scouts, brownies as well as girl guides. Things have taken a turn for the worse. Kids are engaging in sexual activities at a very tender age and academic results have dropped, the future seems bleak.

Ultimately, it seems that the parents need to educate their kids about what is right, wrong and acceptable. It is unfortunate though that children have an influence on one another and they all come from different backgrounds; thus endure different teachings. The onus is on each parent to brighten their childrens’ future by directing them to conform to the rules. It’s not simple but worth the effort. PeaceJ

LIGHTS, CAMERA, FASHION!

I dream of a day where I can have all the clothes I wantJ Gosh day in and day out I always wonder about fashion. Not a day goes by where I shudder to fantasize about the latest fashion trends, hairstyles, accessories and make-up. Although I am more into stylish clothes, funky hairstyles and gutsy make-up grab me. I don’t often wear make-up, eye-liner will do on a blue Monday or heavy weekend, and maybe a dab of lip-gloss every now and again, but that’s it. I do admit though, hair + make-up + outfit are symmetrical and must correspond to complete the look.

Lately we are quite influenced by the media, more often than not. We are so brainwashed that we seem to think that dressing ordinarily, no make-up and no weaves (fake hair) is dull, boring, and not acceptable. Mediocrity is often frowned upon and we need to conform to what the media deems acceptable, apparently.

Staying natural and true to you is not too bad; I find that most people look much prettier without make-up, me included. Life is about exploring and finding new ways to transform yourself but it’s not mandatory. Enjoy life and appreciate your outer beauty. Peace J

SOCIAL NETWORKS

I am intrigued by the interest that everyone has shown over social networks, ie facebook, twitter, etc…Well, everyone including me. The minute I wake up, I check my phone to see what everyone else is up to, read their status updates, check if I have any messages in my inbox, update my own status and wish everybody a good day.

I am afraid that these social networks have taken over our lives. Before these came about, life was simpler and much more personal/intimate. You actually had to call somebody to wish them a good day, a happy birthday, to even have a normal conversation; friends were a phone call away. In today’s world, all you have to do is log onto facebook / twitter/ blackberry messenger (BBM) etc and send the desired message.

What disturbs me the most about this subject is that, the grammar has gone to the dogs. We castrate every single word e.g. be right back (brb), got to go (g2g) etcetera to suit the conversation. At times I struggle to send a formal letter without using these abbreviations and I have to actually request for a second party to proof-read what I have just typed, its such a schlep. On the upside though, we’ve bee given an opportunity to search for long last friends and seize decayed friendships.

I often wonder where would we be without these networks, would life be simpler or more hectic? Who knows, we might as well dance to this tune nonetheless, life is too short. Technology has taken over the world and we just need to grin and bare. Peace J

WRITE YOUR BUCKET LIST/ 100 THINGS TO DO BEFORE YOU DIE

Gosh can I even get to 100? I highly doubt it but let me try…

• Own a car…preferably an Audi TT.

• A good permanent job.

• Get married.

• Love my family.

• Own a business.

• Become an activist for a good cause.

• Get involved in charity work.

• Graduate…again!

• Reach a level of self-actualization.

• Join an NGO.

• Become a success.

• Make my parents proud.

• Buy shares at oil companies.

• Invest everywhere.

• Buy my mom and dad a house.

• Live on a farm.

• Enrol my kids at excellent educational institutions.

• Empower myself.

• Independence.

• Make new friends.

• Treasure old friends.

• Travel around the world.

• Pay all my debt.

• Regain my spirituality.

• Acquaint myself with the Lord.

• Buy a new bible.

• Refer to my bible constantly, especially in times of happiness and doubt.

• Maintain good relationships with my siblings, Hlomy, Lihle as well as my parents.

• Show my family how much I love and care for them.

• Show appreciation towards my friends.

• Make more time for my family.

• Be a good wife and mother.

• Remain free of alcohol or any other illegal substance.

• Remain smoke free.

• Honour and respect those dear to me…as well as strangers.

• Remain enemy free.

• Keep in frequent touch with friends I have made at varsity.

• Love my neighbour as much as I love myself…

• Treat everyone I meet with kindness.

• Perform at the best of my ability @ work.

• Maintain excellence in academia.

• Remain neutral or ignorant when it comes to other people’s business.

• Avoid gossip sessions.

• Avoid spreading rumours.

• See the best in everyone.

• Keep God by my side always.

• Teach my kids about the Lord.

• Keep negative people at bay.

• Avoid bad influences.

• Keep people that add value to my life closer.

• Add value to others.

• To always remember that my attitude determines my altitude.

• To control my bad temper.

• Give back to the community.

• Respect elders and the like.

• Own a fashion company.

• Own a farm.

• Trust God.

I could go on and on but I have managed to list 60…half is not that bad after all right? PeaceJ

MY BIG FAT BIG DREAM

I have always wanted to be rich, I think growing up that’s been my biggest dream. I mean, who doesn’t want to be wealthy? If it means never working a day in your life, having everything paid for, not having to worry about where your next meal is coming from, taking a holiday whenever you feel like it, shop till you drop anytime, no debt, and basically having everything you have ever dreamed of.

Now that I’m older and more mature, I have realised that being rich comes with a price, more often than not. There are many ways of making money and a lot of the time, doing things the legitimate way doesn’t necessarily guarantee wealth. Many a good people have gone the illegal route to make ends meet and fortunately for them, it’s working in their favour. At times, riches bring along their own baggage, for example, loneliness, many new fake friends, long lost relatives that also want a slice of the ‘pie’ and so forth. On the other hand, it also provides stability, great connections everywhere, opens the right doors, and creates new networks that could very well benefit you and your family.


I think the art of it is to remain true to yourself no matter how rich and famous you are. There is nothing like a humble wealthy person, it just draws genuine people towards you. People feel that they can approach you with anything and expect only the best in return. I have decided that I don’t want to be rich but would rather have controllable finances. My biggest dream, on the real, is to own a Fashion Company. I also secretly want to live on a farm one day. To experience a primitive life as well as enjoy the peace and quiet amongst little chicks, piglets and ducks. Peace J